Tuesday 28 August 2012

Just Let Go

Let go, let go, let go...With a massage!

Have you noticed how when the sun is shining everybody seems so much more relaxed and happy?  It's as if the warmth of the sun just melts our worries away!

Believe it or not being relaxed and happy is our natural state of being but most of the time we're holding onto a lot of emotional tension and stress.

The human mind tends to cling onto past negative events as if armoring itself against a repeat replay and negative thoughts and emotions are put into their relevant places in the body...

The familiar aches and pains we get in our upper back and shoulders when life gets stressful and we feel like we're 'carrying the world on our shoulders'. the niggling worries that become 'a pain in the neck' and the heaviness and sickness we get in the stomach when life deals us a hard blow and we feel 'gutted'.   
                
Emotional issues flow through channels or meridians with in the body; when relaxed and our mind at peace, the body is able to function at it's optimum.  However when stressed, our body is thrown out of its natural balanced state and muscles automatically tighten and become knotted.  

This may be necessary as an initial fight or flight response but prolonged tension in the body isn't so good as rigid muscles affect the nerves governing vital organs and knots that store toxic chemicals represent blockages in blood and lymph circulation.  Healing life energy also becomes blocked which in turn creates further physical and emotional imbalances.

Over time if not released, emotional stress and tension begins to manifest itself in the form of headaches, insomnia, bad posture, aches and pains, skin eruptions, anxiety, depression, irritable bowel and high blood pressure, to name only a few.

Eating healthily, exercise, becoming mindful of the continual stream of thoughts that bombard us and taking time to simply relax are all great tools for reducing and managing stress however nothing beats a good massage to really unlock the storage places of emotional tension within the body.

It may take a few sessions to convince your body to fully let go of everything you've been carrying but to feel your muscles relaxing and realigning to where they should be and too have all those knots ironed out is always deeply satisfying.  The body becomes open and clear encouraging a healthy blood, lymph and energy flow.

Over time your muscles learn what it feels like to be relaxed; this helps you become more in tune with your body and conscious of your posture/alignment as well as any tension you may be holding.
 
With regular massage it becomes easier for the mind to let go.  The flowing peace and aliveness your body feels during a massage session coupled with an awareness on the breathe creates a physical and mental state of complete relaxation which reconnects you to your true self.  From this place not dissimilar to mediation, you are invited to let go of the constant chatter of the mind and just be.



Massage really is an incredible and much needed gift to give yourself, so come on....Just let go!

Wednesday 15 August 2012

looking after ourselves

''Take the time in your life to look after your body, mind and spirit'' 

In ancient times, in the East, people would  visit their physician not when they were ill but when they were well.  If they became ill just after the visit and the physician hadn't foreseen the illness then they didn't pay the bill! 

Physicians at this time were mainly acupuncturists who kept the bodily systems in health by regular  treatment of all the pressure points on the body, ensuring a healthy energy flow and good blood and lymph circulation.

This theory still holds true today.  If we could keep our blood circulating freely, and the lymph moving at its correct speed around the body then illness would be greatly reduced.  Unfortunately though not many of us have a perfect circulatory system because somehow, we all manage to produce tension of some sort in our bodies, either physical or emotional.

The way in which we live in modern society results in many of us sat  hunched at a computer desk, slouched on big sofas and sleeping in soft beds  that offer no support for our backs.  It is all to easy for our lives to become sedentary unless we make the effort to exercise our muscles.

we often walk incorrectly and when we stand in ques we let our weight go first on one foot and then the other.  The effect of this is that our muscles are working over time to keep us in our 'slovenly' positions; tissues and organs are pushed into the wrong place, pressure is applied where it shouldn't be and as a result the energy flow is blocked and the blood and lymph have greater difficulty in flowing around the body.

Our diets could be a lot better too, it's not always easy to cook a meal from scratch every evening when we're tired and just want something quick to eat.  Our diet though plays a crucial role in maintaining the health of our bodily systems.

Unnatural (i.e artificially processed) foods are a contributing factor in ill-health, too much sugar and animal fat is often said to contribute to heart disease and the organs of elimination become congested when too many refined starchy foods like white bread, rice, pasta are eaten with not enough roughage such as whole grains, fruits and vegetables.  The foods we choose to eat not only affect our physical health but they also influence the way we feel  and our ability to cope with stress.

Stress is not always bad and in some ways it can often be stimulating enough to make life enjoyable and motivate us to succeed however It can become dangerous when we feel a lack of control with few outlets for our frustration. 

When we are subjected to stress the normal functioning of the body is disrupted.   A hormonal response  sent from the pituitary gland triggers the adrenal glands to release adrenaline into the blood stream to prepare the body for 'fight' or 'flight'. 

The adrenaline coursing around our body causes our heart beat to speed up, our blood pressure and cholesterol levels to rise and muscles to tense.  Breathing becomes shallow or rapid, hunger is suppressed, digestion stops and our body diverts vital resources from the immune system.  As a temporary expedient, the stress response is vital, but if the situation is prolonged with no release of tension then the result can be disastrous on our physical and mental health.

As well as experiencing physical symptoms such as muscular aches and pains, fatigue, headaches, insomnia and irritable bowel to name but a few; our emotions can also be thrown into turmoil.  If we are under a lot of stress then we can feel vulnerable and overwhelmed by negative emotions When the mind is at peace, we experience only positive feelings like love, contentment, selflessness, generosity, etc., and yet  at other times anger, fear, jealousy, selfishness and depression dominate and such dis-ease in our mind can then cause illness and 'disease' within the body.

We need to learn that it is not always the situation but our reaction to it that creates stress in our lives.  Our fears and anxieties about past events repeating themselves add to the vicious circle and the uncertainties of life crowd our mind with frightening possibilities.

As human beings we have a tendency to always focus on the past and the future whilst withdrawing our attention away from the present moment and yet it is in the present moment that we have the greatest clarity to deal with any situation.    It's true that positive lessons and strength can be gained through adversity, but to be constantly under fire causes battle fatigue and this is true of our daily struggles.

There are things that we can do to help ourselves live a longer, healthier and happier life if only we could make them apart of our daily habits like;  becoming mindful of our bodies, the way we move, sit and stand.  Making sure we get enough exercise if our lives are sedentary, choosing to eat only those foods that nourish us and benefit our health, becoming mindful of the thoughts that take us away from enjoying the present moment, taking time out from all the rush, rush to sit quietly and converse with our inner selves and of course to make time in our lives for regular massage!!!

So invest in your well being, It's a way of life.  Wellness is neither a luxury nor a single treatment.  Rather, a mindset that benefits body and soul, for the long run.